Seduction is synonymous with femininity; knowing how to seduce a man is one of the most sought after skills in every woman's world. It goes without saying that a woman who wants to upgrade her sex appeal has to allocate premium time to learn the basics. She will need to do this if she desires to record any success in drawing the attention of the man who her heart and body long for. So, as much as there are tried and tested methods to entice a man and get him to do anything you want, you have to practice and practice until it feels as familiar as the air you breathe. That said, below are some tips on how to seduce your dream man. Successfully.
1. Your Personality, First
Take charge of what makes you. If you want to carry your shoulders high just be your natural self. Vivacious? Keep it loud. Demure? Carry on coyly, sis. By all means, be yourself, as long as you aren't crossing the line of modesty or upsetting public decorum.
2. Make Sure You Are Dressed to Kill
Men are endeared to what they see, so you have to dress to kill. This doesn't mean you have to dress flamboyantly or overdo the make-up on your face. You don't even need to wear outrageous heels. By dressing to kill, you actually need to put in the time to select an ensemble that perfectly suits your body size and complexion. Make up your face as the time of the day demands, and bear in mind that you have to accessorize to match your outfit. It's recommended that you dress to flatter your shape, showing a bit of skin but always with your comfort taken into consideration. We keep hammering on about your comfort because without it you're bound to look like a terrified kitten in need of rescue, regardless of your lovely appearance.
3. Smell Divine
Now you have what you are wearing work out, you certainly need no complex explanation on what smelling divine entails. Wait…! Fight that itchy temptation of bathing in streams of your spritzed perfume (that's an overkill loaded with calamitous aftereffects); just keep it at five sprays max, specifically targeting your pulse points. Floral perfumes work best (which man wants to smell his fellow man on a woman?). Ensure that your underwear isn't begging for a wash, so much so that you masked their "wailing" smell with your perfume. Woman, you'd be found out by his sensitive nose. And the result? A subtle turn-off. In light of that, don clean and crisp-smelling underwear before you set out to fish for a man.
4. Have Your Eyes on Him, And Then Away
Unless you are visually challenged, you must make great use of the windows to your soul - your eyes - in seducing a man. No, we aren't asking you to glare at him like you'd want to rip him apart, limb to limb. Neither are we suggesting staring down at him until he whimpers for mercy. Use your eyes in the most tender manner, caressing his form longingly, and bringing them back to his face. When his eyes meet yours, don't be too fast to look away. For a few seconds, hold your eyes there with his, and with a smile, take them away to some place of interest. By doing so, you've given him ample signals that you really want him to pay attention to you. Also, it shows that you are so into him that you are ready to receive his advances.
5. Touch Him Lightly at Calculated Intervals
This is best done during a fun conversation when everyone is free and chatty. Make a concerted effort to casually touch his arm, knee, chest, or thigh (as the case may be) without making it obvious that you're actually touching him. You can't imagine the intense rush of raw emotions those few, in-between touches are sending into the poor man's body. Even if they don't make him want you instantly, those touches have succeeded in creating a craving in his heart to discover more of you.
6. Get to Know Him
By this, you should show him that you're interested in hearing him talk about himself and his life in general. Consequently, he will be drawn to you, for it is every human being's deep-seated hunger to talk about themselves. Start by asking him questions intended to extract answers natural to every gentleman. When he has become relaxed enough to welcome you into his space, you can delve into other sensitive areas. Such as his sexual fantasies and the rest (we leave that to your imagination).
7. Let Your Body Language Speak to Him
While listening to him talk, maintain eye contact with him. Smile heartedly, revealing a cheerful spirit. When laughing, tilt your head to the side to expose your lovely neck or collarbone/s. That makes you appear vulnerable and ready to be devoured. Lick your lips suggestively while acting as though it is the most natural thing to do. Flash the private body areas that you dare expose, and let his imagination torture him. Never forget to strut like you own the floor, and let your body sway like the queen you are.
8. Flirt With Him via Text Messages
We assume that you got his number from him, and must have gone beyond the hello, hi stage of your meeting. Be bold and express what and how you feel about him in short lines. Step out further by telling him what you would wish him to do to your body. Text him emotional bangers early in the morning, during lunch, or late in the evening. He will not forget what you're doing to his body.
9. Send Him Your Nude Pics...
This would be after you've ascertained that he could be trusted with sensitive information. Take snapshots of yourself naked in a sensual pose, or give him snippets like your boobs, derriere or your legs spread wide apart (to show your pinkie). You'll surely get him rock-hard wherever fate has kept him.
10. ...And Emojis
To build on his attraction for you, emojis are the go-to tools in your phone to use. Give him healthy doses of the kiss faces after texting him goodbye, and hearts when you write that you miss him badly. Express your desire for him by sending him a couple-in-love emoji alongside a bed, and the rest will be history.
Depending on how you want to emotionally seduce a man (before taking him home), the key is to begin with yourself - take charge of your natural self and be in the best of your vibes. Forcing yourself to assume a strange aura would definitely end in a crisis. And once you've put yourself first and you're comfortable being yourself, you'll be okay. With or without the man on your net.