It's not something that any married woman would want to admit to themselves or anyone else. But the reality for many spouses is that over time feelings of hatred can begin to grow. It's inevitable that years of problems and conflicts between two people will inevitably accumulate and result in a wife thinking, "I hate my husband." If you are struggling with this feeling, it might comfort you to know that this is not only a normal response to the trials relationships can face - it's also common in a large percentage of marriages, regardless of how things may look from the outside.