Sometimes the little things matter - a thoughtful gesture, a little surprise, or just the touch of a hand. Here is a secret for the guys out there: with women, it isn't the size of the gesture but the frequency that really counts.
Girls like to be reminded of how special they are as often as possible. So, if you are finding women too mysterious to please, this is for you. We'll review some of the cute things guys do that girls love.
1. Give Her Your Coat When She's Cold
A woman wants to feel cared for. Your concern will go far in her estimation of you. The simple act of giving her your coat when she's cold is a very endearing act. It shows your concern for her well-being and comfort.
2. Pick up Things for Her
We may think of girls as the default cleaning person in a relationship. But girls don't necessarily share that view. Even if they do, they can use a break from time to time. A good way to show you care is to pitch in and help with the chores a bit.
3. Open the Door for Her
The simple act of opening a door for a girl is one of the things guys do that girls love. Call it chivalry or just a way to make her feel special, but it works. Make her feel important by swinging doors open before her, as the queen has just entered the building. She'll relish the attention.
4. Fix Something in Her Daily Life
This is both a great way to do something nice for her and a way to show off your manly repair skills. Find something broken in her life, roll up your sleeves, and fix it. She'll not only think you're awesome, but you will really be doing something to make her life better.
5. Leave Her Notes
Girls love romance, and leaving a love letter is definitely one of the things guys do that girls love. You don't have to be a novelist to earn her praise. Little sticky notes on the fridge proclaiming your love or a sweet note on her pillow before you slip off to work will be enough to keep her smiling all day. She will be ready to make you feel special in turn when you get back home.
6. Don't Be Afraid to Be Emotional
Girls like a sturdy man at their side. But they also like to know you trust them. When you let your emotions out, you'll make them feel special for having done so. It lets them feel they can connect with you in a way you wouldn't let anyone else.
7. Pay Stuff for Your Girl
It may be old fashioned, but showering a girl with gifts is a sure-fire way to make your girl happy. Don't misunderstand; it's not so much the presents as your willingness to nurture them and try and take care of them. Seriously, what better way to make a girl know she is special than you worrying she has something nice to wear or gets a special meal? It's all about providing and caring for her.
8. PDAs
Public displays of affection are not easy for guys. Most guys prefer to keep a cool demeanor in public. Your girl knows that too. But that's what makes a good PDA so special. So toss out your natural reservations, put an arm around your girl, and show the world that you think she's special and you don't care what anyone else thinks about you being all sappy.
9. Dress up for Her
A woman loves a well-dressed man. And dressing up for no other reason more than to look good for her definitely ranks high on the list of things guys do that girls love. So put a little extra polish into your look next time you take her out.
Here's a secret a lot of guys don't know and women don't usually like to fess up to: If other girls get jealous of her for being with you, she'll absolutely love it. So focus on making her look good by looking good yourself.
10. Be Nice to Puppies
Girls love nothing more than a macho guy that's a big softy at heart. Let her see your sweet side and don't be afraid to play with a puppy when the opportunity presents itself. Like it or not, women tend to subconsciously look for guys that are good family material. That translates to good with babies. One way to reassure her you have the temperament and tenderness necessary for being around little ones is to show her how you are with a tiny little puppy.
11. Admire Her When She Wakes Up
Women are hyper-conscious of their appearance. How many times has your girl woken up and ran to the bathroom in a panic to brush her teeth and straighten her hair before you saw her?
If you want to win some serious points with her, stop her in her tracks and let her know just how adorable you think she is in the morning, messed up hair and all. Besides, if you are going to have a long-term relationship, she'll need to stop making that run for the bathroom sooner or later or she'll be a nervous wreck after a couple of months.
12. Give Her a Massage
Women love affection and to be touched. Unfortunately, if a guy is touching a girl, he generally has something specific in mind he wants. But a great way to get a girl in the mood for romance is to touch her in a non-sexual manner. A massage is perfect for this.
Not only does it give her that touching fix she needs, but it can relieve her of a day's stress as well. And that, guys, can lead to that romance you had on your mind in the first place.
13. Pay Attention When She Talks
Women love to communicate. They enjoy telling stories and use them as a way to connect with people. If they're talking to you about their day, you might be tempted to show your disinterest.
Try to never do that. The fact is, she considers it a special offering to you. If you thumb your nose at the offering, she could get hurt or offended. Spend some time instead and listen to her sincerely. Talk to her, at least enough to assure her you are actually listening and care what she has to say.
14. Cook for Her
Here's another pro-tip: Women love to be cooked for just as much as you love them cooking for you. You don't have to do it every day or be an incredible chef. But you can set aside a little time to at least learn one or two recipes well enough to wow her and give her a day off.
You'll realize she might even find this more special than if you took her out, as you've labored to create something just for her. If you have trouble following recipes, you might try searching for videos instead of where you can more easily follow along with a chef and learn how to prepare a dish or two.
15. Tell Her That She's Smart
You may think your girl is beautiful. And that's a good thing. But you may be surprised to know that women can get tired of being called pretty. In fact, it can be a source of insecurity for them. The problem is they sometimes have trouble discerning if you like them or just desire them for their looks.
It can be confusing, as it isn't a problem guys usually have to face. But it is a legitimate problem and concern for women, as they can be made to feel like they are nothing but a sexual object to men. So reassure her you're turned on by her brains, too.
16. Stand up for Her
Women can get a lot of unfair criticism for trying to stand up for themselves. They can be called butch, pushy, or over-emotional. Yet they still have the right and need to stand up for themselves and be heard. You can help your girl to do this by stepping up when she is cut off or dismissed and remind people to be quiet and let her speak.
She will adore you for reminding people she has a voice and a right to be listened to. Ironically, being a feminist yourself can help your girl relax and be more feminine in return.
Chivalry Isn't Dead
These are just a few ideas to help you make that special girl in your life know just how special she really is. Remember, regarding things girls like, the little things count. Instead of going big on gifts, focus on things that prove you know her.
Listen to her, and treat her as an equal. Let her know that she's smart and you value her opinions. If you make her feel special, she's certain to reciprocate in more ways than one.