As frivolously as "I love you" may read, the average woman who finds herself slipping into love with a man takes it so seriously that she feels entitled to ask herself over and over again, "Is he falling in love with me?" The reason for that is that there is a lot of heart touching stories from women, who are left feeling used by the men who promised them love at the onset. There is no question of doubt, that how men fall in love differs from how women do. Nonetheless, there are unmistakable signs - which even the blind can see - that show that a guy is falling in love with you, with or without stamping "I love you" on your fragile heart.
1. He Doesn't Give Up On You
There could be many reasons why a guy relentlessly chases you. Maybe it's for your hot body or for your full pocket. If you're smart it will be easy to pick out a player or a gold digger. It may not, however, be that easy to find a man who gives up his ego, comfort, and resources to stick by you, asking for nothing in return. He's that friend that takes the worst of you without thinking of belittling you or letting you go. It isn't a walk in the park seeing someone in their lowest moments and still wanting to be with them. So, if that man is by your side against the odds, he's falling in love with you (if he hasn't yet).
2. He Has Found A Way Of Infusing Peace Into You
Let's face the fact: anyone who is falling in love desires to be your peace. What will he gain by putting you ill at ease when he is planning to be with you for a long time to come. Therefore, if it means quitting his old habits that won't suit his new status with you, he would do so willingly. His ultimate goal is to come out clean - and stay clean - with you. That's what love can do to a man.
3. He Will Be Protective Of You
Girl, what led you to this post is the steely question, "Is he falling in love with me?" To answer you plainly, of all the ways a guy can show he is getting into you, being protective of you ranks as the most valid. You know why? A guy who doesn't give a hoot about having a tangible relationship with you would watch you get ripped apart and do nothing about it. In fact, he wouldn't hesitate to malign you in front of friends and foes alike, if the opportunity calls for it. The one falling in love with you is always prepared to get into a fight - whether physical or emotional - with anything that stands as a threat to you (even though he could be beaten to a pulp!).
4. His Eye Contact With You Speaks Volumes
He's into you when he seeks you out, his eyes lock with yours, regardless of where you are or what you are doing. Of course, you can tell when a guy is lusting after you with his ravenous stares. For the one falling for you, his eyes will express his deep-rooted affection for you: you'll be able to see the light of sweet kindness flicker in his eyes anytime your eyes meet his. Also, his silent approval of you could be exclusively communicated to you through his eyes.
5. Your Happiness Is His Priority
As pointed out earlier, the man who is lovestruck is interested in your comfort and peace. Adding to that is his insatiable hunger to keep you happy at all costs. Putting every distraction and obstacle aside, he ensures that you always have a smile on your face, at least whenever he's with you. Everything that goes on in his mind has you at the center, and he would be careful not to bring you sadness or tears with his words and actions.
6. He Gives You His Full Attention When You're Talking with Him
Hearing differs from listening. While the latter demands the presence of undivided attention, the former is just an activity that involves the absorption of sound only. You'll know he's falling for you when he doesn't act like you're talking gibberish and gives you the attention you need from him. Following that, he acts accordingly from the place of understanding which came from giving you his ears
7. The Way He Treats You Is Different
If he has no special interest in you, there'll be no difference in the way he treats you and others. But if he's declaring that you're his, then it won't escape your notice that he gives you greater regard than he would give to any other lady. His won't be an act to merely look like a gentleman; it is clear that his loyalty is towards you, so, he makes no show of hiding it.
8. He Lets His Guard Down
Usually, men are the toughies, too hard-set to ever reveal their soft sides. But not the guy falling in love with you. He is beside himself with fervor, to be everything you want in a man; including laying down his tough exterior to assure you that his sanity is right there in your hands.
9. His Support For You Is Undeniable
He will unconsciously do things to make tasks easier for you. He's a force to be reckoned with each time you need a strong support system in your life. Rather than watch you weighed down by difficulties, he's willing to walk the extra mile for you.
10. He Understands That You Have Other Interests That Need Your Attention
Simply put, he doesn't suffocate you with his presence or clinginess. This is rooted in his desire to see you happy by all means. He lets you have your privacy without feeling that he's been neglected or underrated.
How do men fall in love? They do that when you aren't watching. But when it's time to call your attention to their falling hearts, the signs will stand out. If you see more than 3 of the signs discussed here, then rejoice, lucky woman!