Being a Leo in Love

Being a Leo in love is not an easy thing. This fierce sign can be hard to handle for a partner. You know what you want and aren't afraid to go for it. But what happens if there are two Leos in a pair? It is very difficult to achieve compatibility in the Leo-Leo relationship. In addition to the positive aspects, Leos have negative ones that can result in a complete mess when combined. Leos have easily bruised egos, so they're prone to bragging, hyper-competitive, and hate to be wrong. They're also known for having little control over their tempers. So let's explore what to expect from two Leos in the relationship.

Leo and Leo in Love

Leos don't do anything halfway – the same is about love. Their love is fierce and all-consuming. That aggression and possessiveness can make for a strong mutual bond between Leos. However, Leos can also suffer from Peter Pan syndrome because they find it hard to grow up. Having two Leos in a relationship can lead to a disastrous combination in the long-term if or when they both go into a midlife crisis. They'll need trust and mutual respect to keep each other faithful and resist the urge to prove their youth and vigor by flirting with others.

Leo and Leo in Sex

If there is one thing people can say two Leos excel at – it is sex. Leos are uninhibited and aggressive. Put two of them together, and be sure they will break more than one bed. The neighbors will certainly know when two Leos are at home for the evening. As they are almost always in the mood for sex, this is certainly the easiest way to maintain a Leo and Leo relationship. The only danger in the bedroom for Leos is to allow their relationship to be obsessed with sex and use it instead of communication to try to make up after the fights.

Leo and Leo Competitiveness

One of the rougher parts of a two Leo relationship is managing their natural competitiveness. Leos don't like to lose – they like to destroy their opponents. This can make it difficult for a couple that is always jockeying to one-up the other and beat them at something. Couple this with an easily bruised ego of Leo and something bad is bound to happen. The only way Leos can avoid this problem is to set goals that put something external against them so they could work together to defeat the common "enemy".

Leo and Leo in Life

Surprisingly, despite their thirst for competitiveness, two Leos can make for a strong, long-term couple. One of their advantages is how they treat those they care about. They're both generous people who like to show their affection with their time and gifts. So, if they don't kill one another in competition, they spend the time showering each other in affection, gifts, and attention. There's still a big "if". One day the relationship of Leos in love may seem like a passionate romance, and the next day it seems more like an action movie where only one of them will survive. One thing is certain - Leos's relationship will never be boring – even if the people around them wish it were.

Leo and Leo in Communication

When it comes to two Leos, communication is both their strongest and weakest side. Leos can communicate well. That is, they'll say what they're thinking and loudly enough for the whole world to hear. They may as well shout their opinion on your face. So, you'll definitely know where you stand with a Leo. On the other hand, shouting your opinion isn't the best communication skill. Leos are bad listeners. They don't want to listen to you so much as to tell why you are wrong. When you put two of them together, odds are that an epic battle is likely to begin. Whether the couple can work through these natural instincts will largely determine the long-term sustainability of their relationship.

Leo and Leo Trust

While Leos are generally honest, being ruled by the Sun, after all, their constant desire to compete can cause issues if he meets another Leo. Their need for "victory" encourages them to exaggerate or make things up to stay on top. Perhaps fortunately, Leos are generally awful liars. So if lines of communication stay strong, couples can call each other out when they start embellishing parts and remind their beloved that honesty is their strongest trait. But, as always, controlling that inner desire to best their partner and be the dominant one in the relationship is crucial to stay together. Leos must control the urge to display how perfect they are and learn to fess up when they've made a mistake, otherwise, the couple is likely to be doomed.

A Fiery Relationship

Two Leos in a relationship make for plenty of fireworks. But they also make lots of fires. It is difficult for a two Leo relationship to thrive. Leos are hyper-competitive and always want to win at anything they do. But Leo and Leo compatibility is possible. It requires compromise from both people in the relationship they're not accustomed to and the ability to admit guilt and apologize. While hard to accomplish, if the Leos can learn to coexist, their positive qualities can make for a rewarding couple. Their passion, confidence, and loyalty can be infectious and make for an extremely successful "power couple".

Mark Davis
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I'm a professional writer and systems analyst. My interests are sociology and philosophy. I love exploring human interaction, our need for companionship and how to hone the tools necessary to create lasting, meaningful bonds with one another.

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